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Like we were just old pals and I had never been wronged in any way. the only guys likely to stick around long enough for them to suck the life out of is a narcissistic dude who won't take any ****. I entered the relationship a confident guy and left the relationship a shell of a man that I was.

I can honestly say though that after the breakup I was just emotional drained, confused, and doubted myself for the first time in my life. I truly believe these women sub consciously seek out guys like us. She put me on this crazy pedestal and acted like I was this super catch to everyone but was cold as hell behind my back. Used to go on these "breaks" and then string me along until she was "ready." I was a kid so I didn't know any better. But by then I had grown up a bit and told her tough luck. I still bump into people that knew us in high school and they tell me she was crazy and I dodged a bullet. I entered the relationship a confident guy and left the relationship a shell of a man that I was.

This is called "playing hard to get." She wants men to think that she is not easily impressionable and she thinks it makes her more desirable to him, while at the same time fails to realize that she is on a very thin line and she could lose him forever and settle for someone less. A lot a girls do it several times in the initial few days/weeks to see how far you will go; they do it even to the handsome guys they are interested in. What I'm talking about is pushing away stemming from not being able to get close to people, having to do with being afraid and self worth. All the sudden drama is being stirred up, fighting, chaos, etc. youre left thinking "wtf happened to the person I used to know." Then (she's afraid of abandonment) she's nice, kind, sweet, to pull you back and you get a glimmer of hope, then the cycle repeats itself.

This is called "playing hard to get." She wants men to think that she is not easily impressionable and she thinks it makes her more desirable to him, while at the same time fails to realize that she is on a very thin line and she could lose him forever and settle for someone less. One thing people have to realize is there is a specific diagnostic criteria these people have to fit into. Idk but she has a lot of borderline features , which is just as bad. These women treat their new boyfriends like objects and literally won't shut the **** up when they first meet you to their friends talking about this amazing guy she met. They know how to manipulate the **** out of guys and that's usually by stroking their ego.

I think a lot of guys come to this forum because they have in one way or another dated a woman with a borderline.

In a nutshell these women (labeled as BPD or cluster B's will be the best you ever had in bed, will satisfy your ego in a way that no other woman will ever have, and provide such a high for you at the beginning of a relationship most normal women you meet will be boring to you.

Just arm yourself guys, and if you think there is a chance you are dating one run for the hills.If I knew what I was dealing with sooner i would have walked away way before I did. I entered the relationship a confident guy and left the relationship a shell of a man that I was.Then the chick had the nerve to keep trying to check up on me after I moved on and started dating again. I truly believe these women sub consciously seek out guys like us, an insecure weak man is of no use to these women because they break.The scary part is if they're high functioning borderlines (like I'm assuming yours was) is that they actually have the ability to appear rational and quite normal at times so if they do contact you after the breakup (and they always do guys) you may find yourself getting reeled back in before you know it, hell I questioned my own sanity at that point. After the breakup I was just emotional drained, confused, and doubted myself for the first time in my life. I truly believe these women sub consciously seek out guys like us, an insecure weak man is of no use to these women because they break.The scary part is if they're high functioning borderlines (like I'm assuming yours was) is that they actually have the ability to appear rational and quite normal at times so if they do contact you after the breakup (and they always do guys) you may find yourself getting reeled back in before you know it, hell I questioned my own sanity at that point. the only guys likely to stick around long enough for them to suck the life out of is a narcissistic dude who won't take any ****.

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